*Author Laurie Frankel writes this as a fictional book, that also touches a little on her own experience of raising a transgender child. I can’t wait for others to read this book because I really do want to talk about it. This would be a wonderful discussion book as there are so many things to discuss. My only small complaint is the end wraps up a little too quickly and neatly – but again, that could be my perception and perhaps I am just bitter that it had to end at all.Ī timely read.

I really enjoyed reading this book and found it to be different than anything I have read before. As Claude encounters new obstacles, the parents make decisions that they hope will be for the better of all upending their lives in ways that can and will spin out of control. Rosie, a Doctor, balances a career and her family. Weaved within the pages, Penn, a stay-at-home novelist, tells a wonderful story to the children centered around a non-descriptive character called Grumwald. There is so much that is so good in this book.

― Laurie Frankel, This Is How It Always IsĪdmittedly, this took me a while to write this review. “For my child, for all our children, I want more options, more paths through the woods, wider ranges of normal, and unconditional love.”

When people whispered when the family went on outings. When the school called to say the way Claude was dressing was a distraction to the other students. While Penn and Rosie could keep their child perfectly happy when he was in their home, the outside world was not so open. When Claude wanted to wear a party dress for his first day of school and carry a purse as a lunch box while his parents hesitated, ultimately they want their child to be happy and comfortable in his choices, so a party dress it was. When Clause wished for his hair to grow long, they let his hair grow. When Claude chose to play dress-up over trucks, Penn and Rose were happy to oblige. When Rosie becomes pregnant for the 5th time, both Penn and she feel this time it will be a girl but alas they find they have another perfectly wonderful boy.Ĭlaude is a complete joy and the perfect addition to the happy family. An incredibly engrossing read that touched my heart in so many ways.

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